fer told the police that she had been sexually abused by her mother’s “live-in boyfriend” and after their mother was arrested and charged with disorderly conduct and intoxication while in a car with her five children. The “live-in boyfriend” was not identified any further. Russell Jones, Mary Jane’s former husband, is the father of the three girls.
Shortly after obtaining custody of the children, DCFS placed Jason and Michael in a foster home where they remained for the next four years, while the juvenile court proceeded with the disposition of their cases.
On April 22, 1986, the court held that Jason and Michael had been neglected and abused. On July 30, 1986, the court adjudicated Jason and Michael wards of the court and placed them under DCFS guardianship. On May 27, 1988, DCFS filed supplemental petitions seeking the termination of parental rights and the appointment of a guardian with the right to consent to Jason’s and Michael’s adoption.
Mary Jane had been involved in service plans with DCFS since 1982. She had also been receiving counseling from De Paul Mental Health Center and Children’s Home and Aid Society since 1984. She and the defendant were never married. They lived together with the five children at 2813 Leavitt in Chicago for approximately one year. During this time the defendant actively assisted in the care of the children, and he treated all five children as if they were his own. The defendant and Mary Jane ceased living together in July or August of 1985, one or two months after they lost custody of the children. The defendant then moved in with a friend at 643 North Melrose.
Before the children were placed in foster homes, four of them were temporarily placed with Mary Jane’s sister. The youngest child, Michael, was temporarily placed elsewhere. The defendant regularly visited the four children at Mary Jane’s sister’s home for approximately one month before they were placed in foster homes. Subsequently, the defendant did not see his sons again until January of 1988, after they had been in placement for years. Mignon Pruitt, a DCFS case worker, testified that, to her knowledge, the defendant did not telephone the children or send them any cards or letters during this 21/2-year period.
The defendant was aware of the court proceedings involving the children. He testified that he discussed the matter with Mary Jane, and they decided that Mary Jane would be able to regain custody of the children sooner if the defendant would “stay out of the pic