confidential investigator, and an information request filed with the New York Child Abuse Maltreatment Register.
As noted in the Baby E. (supra) case (citing Secretariat Opn No. 16 [May 16, 1975]) it often happens that children are placed from one compact State into another without observing compact procedures. While efforts should be made to prevent this, " 'the most desirable course to follow is often dependent upon reasonable judgment as to the equities.’ ” (104 Misc 2d, supra, at 193.)
Except for failing to get the approval of the Interstate Compact Administrator, in all other respects the petitioners have complied with New York law. The natural parents have given their irrevocable consents before a court of competent jurisdiction in Tennessee and the petitioners have shown themselves to be concerned, loving people.
Based upon the record presently before it, the court finds it is at this juncture to make its determination based on the best interest of its ward, and that the best interests of the child will be served by permitting him to remain with the adoptive parents in Nassau County and grants the application for adoption.
Although no unauthorized involvement was found in this case, where a third-party intermediary is involved, particular concern is warranted on the part of the court. Accordingly, the court deems it appropriate to admonish any physicians, lawyers, or other individuals who act in an unauthorized manner as intermediaries that they may be subject to criminal liability (Matter of Anonymous [G.], 89 Misc 2d 514; Matter of Aronson, 18 AD2d 53; People v Michelman, 93 Misc 2d 297). In order to safeguard against the improper activities of intermediaries and to set some guidelines until the Legislature has had an opportunity to fully review this matter and possibly prescribe legislative guidelines for adoption practitioners, this court instituted the following additional rules for private placement adoptions:
a) the natural mother must be afforded independent counsel from a court-approved panel of attorneys familiar with adoption proceedings if she does not have an attorney of her own;
b) the attorney for the adoptive parents must not be involved, either directly or indirectly, in the placement of the child (while the court has already determined that there is no violation of this rule in this case, the matter will be submitted to the Surrogates’ Association for further review);